Ugh, I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm pretty much monofannish and I'm really lucky that it's a niche fandom with really lovely people in it (Age of Sail, particularly Sharpe, Hornblower and the film Master & Commander and the books it was based on).
People can be really really nasty when they have this pseudonymous veil that lets them think 'oh they're not really people like me' - or that removes the connection that we have with people we actually talk to and interact with in person.
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Date: 2019-01-22 10:44 pm (UTC)People can be really really nasty when they have this pseudonymous veil that lets them think 'oh they're not really people like me' - or that removes the connection that we have with people we actually talk to and interact with in person.